The mall was packed as a couple went Christmas shopping on Christmas Eve. As the wife walked through the mall she became concerned when she stopped long enough to realize her husband was nowhere around. She was quite upset. They had a lot to do.
Frustrated, she called him on the cell to ask him where he was. In a calm voice the husband said, "Honey, you remember the jewelry store we went into about 5 years ago? The one where you fell in love with that diamond necklace that we couldn't afford then?"
The wife, choked up, started to cry. "Yes, I remember that jewelry store."
He said, "Well, I'm in the bar right next to it."
Tuesday, November 20, 2012
Thursday, November 15, 2012
Relationships
This post is inspired by the "16 Ways I Blew My Marriage" blogpost by Dan Pearce, of Single Dad Laughing (see his blog post here). He offers some fantastic advice on how to end up divorced. At the end of his posts (it's in two parts), he asked if the reader had any advice they'd like to share as to how to keep a marriage together. Here's my two cents worth.
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Your compassion may lead to make up sex.
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Now, go check out Single Dad Laughing. It's worth the read.
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Don’t go hide when she cries.
It’s tough to see a strong woman cry. It distorts the
opinion that she is just as tough as you (have made her). Men cannot relate to
many of the reasons that would make a woman cry. So, when the tears start, a
man fumbles, stumbles, mumbles and leaves.
Do Over –
Don’t leave. Take it like a man. If you made her cry, suffer
the tears in silence for a moment. Whether you did or not, reach out, gently
touching her, letting her know you’re not running away. If she doesn’t slap your
hand, work your way into an embrace. Let her cry on your shoulder. If she does
slap your hand, go get a cool washcloth and a box of tissue. Wait a moment.
When she’s ready, offer them to her.
Bonus –
Your courage to withstand the storm of tears will be
remembered. You will have made the foundation of your relationship stronger.
Extra Bonus –
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Now, go check out Single Dad Laughing. It's worth the read.
Tuesday, November 6, 2012
The Angst of a Voter
“Democracy demands an educated and informed electorate.” Thomas Jefferson
I am not the most intelligent
person in the world. Just ask my family and friends, they’ll be happy to verify. But, when
it comes to voting, I like to be prepared. I study the issues, draw my own
conclusions, fill out my sample ballot (that the local government was kind
enough to provide), and go to my precinct and cast my vote. Quickly, I might
add, with the help of the handy-dandy sample ballot.
Election day, 2012. I went to my
polling place and stood in line with the rest of the patriotic souls who chose not to participate in the ‘Early Voting’
or the ‘Mail Ballot’. We vote the old-fashioned way. On Election Day. So, I can only blame myself for what I was forced to witness
at the precinct.
I stood in line for a short while
outside, playing a game on my phone, appearing oblivious to those around me.
One couple had a mildly heated exchange because the woman laughed at the man
for cutting, rather than folding, his voter ID card in half, and leaving the wrong
half at home.
Most of the people in line chatted
pleasantly with one another. Some in English, some in Spanish, but all seeming
to enjoy the relative cool day and camaraderie of exercising the right to vote.
Once inside, I took my ballot, went
to the (quasi-) private booth, pulled out my cheat sheet (a/k/a sample ballot),
and proceeded to fill in my choices. It was the woman in the next booth that
gave me pause. She was speaking to one of the precinct volunteers.
“What does this, Amendment One mean?
I mean, who’s it gonna benefit?”
I was under the impression it was a
rhetorical question. The two had been standing there when I arrived, and the
Amendment questions were at the end of the four-page ballot. I was mistaken.
She truly expected an answer.
“I’m sorry, ma’am,” replied the
volunteer. “I can’t discuss that with you.”
“So, you don’t know either?”
“Ma’am, it would be inappropriate
for me to discuss–”
“Yeah, yeah, but how should I vote?”
I shook my head, deciding the woman
was messing with the poor volunteer.
“I’m sorry, ma’am–”
“Yeah, I heard that. OK, what about
Amendment Four?”
“Ma’am, if you don’t need any more
help with the ballot–”
“I do! But what good are you? You
won’t tell me who you voted for, you can’t tell me what the Amendments mean,
and you got no opinion on the Judge issue.”
At this point, I leaned out of my
booth just to get a look at the idiot speaking. There stood a short, round,
angry woman, glaring up at the unfortunate volunteer whose smile seemed to have
been chiseled into place. The volunteer glanced at me, still smiling that
creepy smile, and walked away.
At that moment I grew a deep respect
for those ultra-patriotic souls who volunteer to man our precincts. Then I
ducked my head back in my booth and prayed the woman didn’t notice me. I will confess to the temptation of handing her my cheat sheet before I
left, and saying something along the lines of, “Here, copy this.”
You know, I’m all for the right to
vote. But, I’m leaning toward the camp proposing testing to earn the Voter ID
card.
God help the USA.
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